I don't know if this analogy is accurate or even useful, but maybe the whole EU thing is a bit like a rave, there are a lot of people having a wonderful time and it's clearly brilliant, and there are also a load of people that sort of want the rave to finish, and the remainers are like yeah come of man just one more song, and the others are like yeah but like your rave has been going now for fifty years and we can see you're clearly having a great time and there are all these lovely people from different nations, but we're having to constantly clean up all the mess and now your children are ravers and I just don't know what to say anymore, we just want to leaveen.wikipedia.org #